A couple of weeks ago I sent an e-mail to an old friend from high school. Logged onto my computer Monday morning at work, first thing a reminder popped up for his birthday. So I sent a quick message with warm birthday wishes. In a few minutes he called me. Seems he had forgotten it was his birthday, and to tell the truth wasn't altogether thrilled to be reminded he was getting older. Like a true friend, I assured him that this was indeed a sign he is getting much older and should start taking vitamins immediately.
I have another friend who's birthday was last Sunday. (On a strange side note, it seems like all my friends have birthdays. I haven't checked with every one of them but it would be quite a coincidence if they ALL did.) My wife and I have known her for a while, long enough to know, I guess, when her birthday is. But I don't remember it ever coming up in a conversation, and like most guys I'm not the sort to seek it out and try to remember it. Usually I'm doing good to remember any birthday other than my wife and kids. I didn't have a card or present since we were at church when I found out it was her birthday. I told her I hoped she had a great birthday and remarked on many ways that her life was really, really good. She could tell my comments were true and from the heart, which made for an appropriate and I think appreciated birthday gift.
My sister's birthday is also right near Christmas. Like my friend at church, her birthday is often overshadowed by Christmas. I will not join those who rant and rave about the commercialization, etc. but things can get very busy with all the extras on the calendar and to do list. My parents always made a special effort to make her birthday memorable and to make sure it didn't get lost in the shuffle (plus she was the only girl so always got special treatment anyway).
All this birthday stuff right near Christmas started me thinking about another friend who's birthday is on Christmas day. That would be really tough, I suppose, but I've never heard him complain. He is the sort of guy who gives without any strings and instead of being offended that you forgot his birthday, would look for an opportunity to strengthen the friendship. One year when he was little some potentates threw him a surprise party with some really expensive gifts, but much of the time I suspect his birthday too gets lost in the shuffle of Christmas.
This year I'm going to make a point of telling him happy birthday and giving him a present. He's pretty well off so there's nothing I could buy that he needs (or wants, for that matter), but I suspect that like my friend at church, a gift from the heart would be appropriate and just the sort of thing He would appreciate.
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Monday, December 17, 2007
In the Know
My church The Branch has a monthly corporate prayer meeting. Last month during the prayer time the Lord spoke some specific things to my heart. Most of those were for me personally but there was one thing in particular that I wanted to share here. It applies to everyone because it is true, it will benefit anyone willing to embrace it. When I think about my last couple of entries, this one seems like it is going exactly opposite to what I just said about rambling on trying to make sense of things. Maybe the difference is this morning I have something to say. Maybe I shouldn't have laughed at Al Gore when the Republicans shouted "Flip Flop" at him, accusing him of changing his mind. Only God does not change, the rest of us do. And the rest of us need to. I remember one day as a young single man, fervently calling out to God for His will to be done in my life, hearing His voice in my heart, gently correcting and directing me:
So here is the promised formula to help you gain understanding. This secret is so powerful it doesn't even have to be applied perfectly, just start in on it & keep at it & I expect you will see significant progress in whatever area of your life you use it. I'm not even sure this is a secret, it seems so plain and obvious. And yet when we look at our lives, and at the world around us, there obviously are principles being broken.
TO GAIN UNDERSTANDING
Wisdom herself speaks this out in Proverbs 9:4-6.
"It is my love that demands you change."Thank God He loves us too much to leave us alone. He has promised to finish the good work He started.
So here is the promised formula to help you gain understanding. This secret is so powerful it doesn't even have to be applied perfectly, just start in on it & keep at it & I expect you will see significant progress in whatever area of your life you use it. I'm not even sure this is a secret, it seems so plain and obvious. And yet when we look at our lives, and at the world around us, there obviously are principles being broken.
TO GAIN UNDERSTANDING
Wisdom herself speaks this out in Proverbs 9:4-6.
"Whoever is simle, let him turn in here! As for him who lacks
understanding, she says to him: Come, eat of my bread, and drink of the
wine I have mixed. Forsake foolishness and live. And go in the way
of understanding."Here are the four steps:
Come
Eat & Drink
Forsake
Go
I will share a little more of my thoughts on these going forward, but if you're reading this you may want to give them consideration on your own. And by all means, share your insights with me. I have made a deep commitment to gain understanding in my life, and welcome you as the avenue for it.
Saturday, December 1, 2007
Comin' Up
Comin' up - How to gain understanding about anything in every circumstance. Do you know the four steps to unlock unlimited growth in understanding? You will after reading this (and I'm not kidding).
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
The Blank revisited
Often our internal conversation is an effort to make sense of our lives. Or maybe I should say mine is. Something inside says that your life really matters, or at least ought to. There should be justice, and truth, and (oh please) mercy. Mostly we search for meaning not by writing it all down, but by talking to ourselves internally. I wake up this morning & sit here with a cup of coffee and a blank page before me.
A true picture of the day. My day is blank before me, waiting to be created. There are some things about the day that are not so much totally blank as waiting to be filled in. But the truth is that God has given us the power of choice in our lives and we decide how to fill in the blanks. My job, my home, my spouse, my church, the city I live in, the clothes in the closet, much of my life is the result of choices I have made. Choices I make today powerfully influence the range of choices I will have available to me tomorrow.
Choose well, my friends. And to myself, I say, Choose well!
The day is just beginning.
A true picture of the day. My day is blank before me, waiting to be created. There are some things about the day that are not so much totally blank as waiting to be filled in. But the truth is that God has given us the power of choice in our lives and we decide how to fill in the blanks. My job, my home, my spouse, my church, the city I live in, the clothes in the closet, much of my life is the result of choices I have made. Choices I make today powerfully influence the range of choices I will have available to me tomorrow.
Choose well, my friends. And to myself, I say, Choose well!
The day is just beginning.
The Blank
NOTE: This was written a couple of months ago, I didn't publish it at the time but I just read it again this morning & decided maybe it wasn't as bad as I thought it was.
One thing about writing is that you start with a blank page. There are all kinds of thoughts about writer's block, getting started, how to turn a thought or idea into a written work, etc. When I started this blog it was just a way to process some of the thoughts & emotions I had. Then a friend, then another, mentioned that they had read it, and somehow that changed something for me. It was like I wanted to say something of value to whoever happened upon this blog, and a new dynamic was introduced. Gradually it seemed as if the blank page was waiting to receive words of wisdom, or insight, or whatever could be of benefit. Then it became something to do, which wasn't quite as fun as it had been to write it. So I suspect it would not be as fun to read. Not that I really expect the early morning musings of someone who's daytime identity is a CPA to be really fun anyway.
So I'm going back to the blank page. Just me and the morning. Cup o' Joe, laptop, and a few quite moments before the kids wake up & the race begins. It's quiet now. I can hear my wife upstairs, moving around quietly so as not to wake Jack. Once he's up the house is a different place. My next door neighbor is a single man, his house is no bigger than mine but I imagine it is roomy for him. With 3 active kids I am sometimes wishing for more square footage. But there are some real advantages- you do spend more time together, in part because you are physically closer together. And my kids don't seem to mind, not in the least. When Jack gets up, he climbs out of his bed & heads to the hallway. I keep his bedroom door closed for his own safety - he can open it but at least the sound wakes me up so he's not wandering around the house all by himself. He will stand at the top of the stairs with his wonderful 2 year old smile and announce: "Jack's awake!" Let the games begin. Can I make a confession? He usually watches Curious George on PBS in the mornings. It is one of the few reasons on earth he will sit still for 25 consecutive minutes. He is very curious himself and it can be disconcerting to step out of the shower to find his sister's pet frogs in the sink instead of their aquarium or to find all the silverware on the kitchen floor. Many times I've heard people talk about what a negative thing the tv is, or how horrible it is to use it to "baby sit" your kids. But I think the truth is in the middle- this is a powerful medium for good or bad. Alan Ladd would put it like this, "A tv is a tool, Marion. It's no better and no worse than the man that uses it." (A quote from the western "Shane"). If Jesus chose to physically be on the earth today, he would be on tv. Maybe he would purchase airtime to get his message out, maybe not. But he caused enough of a stir that there would be no way for Him not to be on tv.
Well, I have really enjoyed this little chat. Not sure if there is anything of value here, to tell the truth. Just some early morning ramblings of some guy waking up and considering his life. The wisest man who ever lived did that a lot, of course his writings about it are of value. So if you're looking for something of value, I would recommend the Bible. If you're just curious, thanks for taking a minute to let me ramble. And to you I say, Ramble on. Keep considering your life until it makes some sense. My page is no longer blank, and my little Jack is awake.
One thing about writing is that you start with a blank page. There are all kinds of thoughts about writer's block, getting started, how to turn a thought or idea into a written work, etc. When I started this blog it was just a way to process some of the thoughts & emotions I had. Then a friend, then another, mentioned that they had read it, and somehow that changed something for me. It was like I wanted to say something of value to whoever happened upon this blog, and a new dynamic was introduced. Gradually it seemed as if the blank page was waiting to receive words of wisdom, or insight, or whatever could be of benefit. Then it became something to do, which wasn't quite as fun as it had been to write it. So I suspect it would not be as fun to read. Not that I really expect the early morning musings of someone who's daytime identity is a CPA to be really fun anyway.
So I'm going back to the blank page. Just me and the morning. Cup o' Joe, laptop, and a few quite moments before the kids wake up & the race begins. It's quiet now. I can hear my wife upstairs, moving around quietly so as not to wake Jack. Once he's up the house is a different place. My next door neighbor is a single man, his house is no bigger than mine but I imagine it is roomy for him. With 3 active kids I am sometimes wishing for more square footage. But there are some real advantages- you do spend more time together, in part because you are physically closer together. And my kids don't seem to mind, not in the least. When Jack gets up, he climbs out of his bed & heads to the hallway. I keep his bedroom door closed for his own safety - he can open it but at least the sound wakes me up so he's not wandering around the house all by himself. He will stand at the top of the stairs with his wonderful 2 year old smile and announce: "Jack's awake!" Let the games begin. Can I make a confession? He usually watches Curious George on PBS in the mornings. It is one of the few reasons on earth he will sit still for 25 consecutive minutes. He is very curious himself and it can be disconcerting to step out of the shower to find his sister's pet frogs in the sink instead of their aquarium or to find all the silverware on the kitchen floor. Many times I've heard people talk about what a negative thing the tv is, or how horrible it is to use it to "baby sit" your kids. But I think the truth is in the middle- this is a powerful medium for good or bad. Alan Ladd would put it like this, "A tv is a tool, Marion. It's no better and no worse than the man that uses it." (A quote from the western "Shane"). If Jesus chose to physically be on the earth today, he would be on tv. Maybe he would purchase airtime to get his message out, maybe not. But he caused enough of a stir that there would be no way for Him not to be on tv.
Well, I have really enjoyed this little chat. Not sure if there is anything of value here, to tell the truth. Just some early morning ramblings of some guy waking up and considering his life. The wisest man who ever lived did that a lot, of course his writings about it are of value. So if you're looking for something of value, I would recommend the Bible. If you're just curious, thanks for taking a minute to let me ramble. And to you I say, Ramble on. Keep considering your life until it makes some sense. My page is no longer blank, and my little Jack is awake.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Not a harvest grain lost
You will hear them preaching it on tv, but you heard it here first. You will see it happen in God's people, but you'll see it here first.
How do I know? Because I see it in the Word and I believe it in my heart and I confess it with my mouth and that is the pattern God set for how things work. That is how He operates and He is teaching His people to operate like Him.
2 Kings 8 tells the story of a woman going home. She lived amoung the Philistines for 7 years because of a famine in the land of Israel. She didn't run away, she left at the word of the Lord to her. When she came home she went to see the king about getting back what was hers.
The Lord prepared the way for this woman. As she walked into the king's presence, they were talking about her! The king was speaking with Elisha's servant about the time Elisha raised her son to life. She was going to see the king, and at that moment the king was thinking about her and talking about her. Mere coincidence? Don't think so.
God prepared the way for her request to be answered, and then some. She wanted to get back her house and land. Because the Lord prepared the way for her, the king immediately answered yes to her request. He commanded that everything that belonged to her was returned. Done.
But listen to this - here is the part that flashed out at me: In addition to her house and land, the king commanded that she be given the value of any crops that had been harvested during her absence! God cares about your harvest. The Lord has not forgotten about the seed sown, and he watches over it. He wants you to have the harvest. God is a restorer of lost harvests. He is a King who knows the value of the harvest. He is the Lord of the Harvest.
In this instance, the woman's harvest was a literal, physical harvest of crops. There was no way to give her the physical harvest. What was restored to her was money, income, the equal value of her lost harvest. One reason God uses money so much is that we can understand it. God cares about our physical harvest and wants us to understand how things work. The harvest Jesus spoke to His disciples about was of people.
We are entering a season of harvest. I am prepared to receive the restoration of my lost harvest, the value of what God gave me that I was not able to receive and enjoy. What appeared to be lost or stolen is now restored! In one day, the Shunammite woman went from homeless to owning a house and lands with seven years worth of income in the bank. Our God is a God of restoration, and He is Lord of the Harvest. He wants to restore the harvests that have been lost. If you look at the king's command, not one day's worth of harvest was lost- "from the day she left until now." I am receiving the value of my harvest, because the King has declared it so.
How do I know? Because I see it in the Word and I believe it in my heart and I confess it with my mouth and that is the pattern God set for how things work. That is how He operates and He is teaching His people to operate like Him.
2 Kings 8 tells the story of a woman going home. She lived amoung the Philistines for 7 years because of a famine in the land of Israel. She didn't run away, she left at the word of the Lord to her. When she came home she went to see the king about getting back what was hers.
The Lord prepared the way for this woman. As she walked into the king's presence, they were talking about her! The king was speaking with Elisha's servant about the time Elisha raised her son to life. She was going to see the king, and at that moment the king was thinking about her and talking about her. Mere coincidence? Don't think so.
God prepared the way for her request to be answered, and then some. She wanted to get back her house and land. Because the Lord prepared the way for her, the king immediately answered yes to her request. He commanded that everything that belonged to her was returned. Done.
But listen to this - here is the part that flashed out at me: In addition to her house and land, the king commanded that she be given the value of any crops that had been harvested during her absence! God cares about your harvest. The Lord has not forgotten about the seed sown, and he watches over it. He wants you to have the harvest. God is a restorer of lost harvests. He is a King who knows the value of the harvest. He is the Lord of the Harvest.
In this instance, the woman's harvest was a literal, physical harvest of crops. There was no way to give her the physical harvest. What was restored to her was money, income, the equal value of her lost harvest. One reason God uses money so much is that we can understand it. God cares about our physical harvest and wants us to understand how things work. The harvest Jesus spoke to His disciples about was of people.
We are entering a season of harvest. I am prepared to receive the restoration of my lost harvest, the value of what God gave me that I was not able to receive and enjoy. What appeared to be lost or stolen is now restored! In one day, the Shunammite woman went from homeless to owning a house and lands with seven years worth of income in the bank. Our God is a God of restoration, and He is Lord of the Harvest. He wants to restore the harvests that have been lost. If you look at the king's command, not one day's worth of harvest was lost- "from the day she left until now." I am receiving the value of my harvest, because the King has declared it so.
Friday, October 26, 2007
You've got to show it
This morning I'm out the door to have coffee with one of my very good friends. We try to get together one morning a week. Doesn't always work because of our schedules, and for a while there it seemed like we were both either out of town or on the go a lot. Recently we changed from Thursday to Wednesday, but this week it's Friday. Sometimes I buy the coffee, sometimes he buys, usually we just get our own.
I usually bring my Bible, and he mostly does too, but don't necessarily open them every time. At one point in my life it would have bothered me to say that, but now it does not. The things that we discuss are things that are important in our lives- our families, our church, our work. Sometimes we discuss things that are not important at all, like all the beautiful chrome on my Harley. Sometimes he will ask me what I've been reading, which I love to do but is kind of a luxury since my children are 13, 6, and 2 years old. He and his wife don't have kids so in some ways our lives are very different.
We share a lot in common, but the main thing is I trust him. I trust his heart and I trust his head. I value what he has to say, and I know he cares. We don't always have the same perspective on everything, which is good. We all need that. He's my friend. I am thankful to say that I have been blessed with some close and supportive relationships. Many of them have been formed at the Branch Family Church.
Proverbs says that if you want friends, you've got to show yourself friendly. A friend loves at all times. There is a friend that sticks closer than a brother. A friend listens. A friend tells you the truth, when it feels good and when it doesn't. A friend watches your back and supports you when you're not there. If we want to have friends like that, we've got to be a friend like that. If you want a friend, you've got to love and you've got to show it.
I usually bring my Bible, and he mostly does too, but don't necessarily open them every time. At one point in my life it would have bothered me to say that, but now it does not. The things that we discuss are things that are important in our lives- our families, our church, our work. Sometimes we discuss things that are not important at all, like all the beautiful chrome on my Harley. Sometimes he will ask me what I've been reading, which I love to do but is kind of a luxury since my children are 13, 6, and 2 years old. He and his wife don't have kids so in some ways our lives are very different.
We share a lot in common, but the main thing is I trust him. I trust his heart and I trust his head. I value what he has to say, and I know he cares. We don't always have the same perspective on everything, which is good. We all need that. He's my friend. I am thankful to say that I have been blessed with some close and supportive relationships. Many of them have been formed at the Branch Family Church.
Proverbs says that if you want friends, you've got to show yourself friendly. A friend loves at all times. There is a friend that sticks closer than a brother. A friend listens. A friend tells you the truth, when it feels good and when it doesn't. A friend watches your back and supports you when you're not there. If we want to have friends like that, we've got to be a friend like that. If you want a friend, you've got to love and you've got to show it.
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